Wednesday, March 17, 2010
Moomba + Natural Bridge
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Events,
Nature,
The fortnight in pictures
Monday, March 15, 2010
Wistful.
Angus and Julia Stone - What You Wanted
Angus and Julia Stone - Bella
Angus and Julia Stone - Babylon
Angus and Julia Stone - Paper Aeroplanes
One AM Radio - A Brittle Filament
Angus and Julia Stone - Campfire
Angus and Julia Stone - All of Me
Angus and Julia Stone - Choking
Georgia Fair - Picture Frames
Augie March - The Hole In Your Roof
Phoenix - Love Is Like A Sunset Part II
Mogwai - I Know Who You Are But What Am I
Breaking up is hard to do, but letting go is worse. Be brave, heartbroken lovers.
Angus and Julia Stone - Bella
Angus and Julia Stone - Babylon
Angus and Julia Stone - Paper Aeroplanes
One AM Radio - A Brittle Filament
Angus and Julia Stone - Campfire
Angus and Julia Stone - All of Me
Angus and Julia Stone - Choking
Georgia Fair - Picture Frames
Augie March - The Hole In Your Roof
Phoenix - Love Is Like A Sunset Part II
Mogwai - I Know Who You Are But What Am I
Breaking up is hard to do, but letting go is worse. Be brave, heartbroken lovers.
Friday, March 12, 2010
Faith
As a churchgoing child, it's funny I should say this - my clearest memory of faith, hope and love are not from the Bible, but from an Enid Blyton book, The Land of Far-Beyond.
If I remember correctly, it's about a motley crew of characters travelling through all sorts of strange, sinful lands to the pearly gates. At the end, few make it and the angel asks, which is most important, faith, hope or love?
Naturally, the answer is love. Even pop culture agrees on this one, albeit the view rather distorted.
As for hope, I'd like to think of myself as a forward-looking optimist, always believing that the future holds much more.
I was never good at differentiating between faith and hope. I suppose in many ways, faith held religious connotations for me. On the other hand, we use hope for everything - I hope you're feeling better, Hopefully, I'll get this! etc. And let's face it, religion doesn't sell as well as optimism.
Yesterday, I had my faith tested. I'm ashamed to say that when things did not go my way, I crumbled and dissolved into tears. I threw up (though that is more likely a result of hanging out in the CBD for 10 hours in a miniskirt at 13C). I immediately dialed the ex's number.
But then I remembered earlier in the day, SL had tagged me on an eloquently put note on Facebook. And it was about faith. And it felt preemptory, as if she knew what I would go through in a few more hours.
I reread it, thoroughly this time. Sooky consoled me. I threw up again. And then at the end of it, I stopped crying, blew my nose, downed tom yum noodles, and decided that if this was going to fall through, I was going to believe anyway, that my Maker had made all the necessary arrangements for what is best and what is right.
"Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, BELIEVE that you have received it, and it will be yours." - Mark 11:25
"NOW faith is, the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things yet unseen" - Hebrews 11:1
(Quotes stolen from Sarah's Facebook note, which in turn are from the Bible)
If I remember correctly, it's about a motley crew of characters travelling through all sorts of strange, sinful lands to the pearly gates. At the end, few make it and the angel asks, which is most important, faith, hope or love?
Naturally, the answer is love. Even pop culture agrees on this one, albeit the view rather distorted.
As for hope, I'd like to think of myself as a forward-looking optimist, always believing that the future holds much more.
I was never good at differentiating between faith and hope. I suppose in many ways, faith held religious connotations for me. On the other hand, we use hope for everything - I hope you're feeling better, Hopefully, I'll get this! etc. And let's face it, religion doesn't sell as well as optimism.
Yesterday, I had my faith tested. I'm ashamed to say that when things did not go my way, I crumbled and dissolved into tears. I threw up (though that is more likely a result of hanging out in the CBD for 10 hours in a miniskirt at 13C). I immediately dialed the ex's number.
But then I remembered earlier in the day, SL had tagged me on an eloquently put note on Facebook. And it was about faith. And it felt preemptory, as if she knew what I would go through in a few more hours.
I reread it, thoroughly this time. Sooky consoled me. I threw up again. And then at the end of it, I stopped crying, blew my nose, downed tom yum noodles, and decided that if this was going to fall through, I was going to believe anyway, that my Maker had made all the necessary arrangements for what is best and what is right.
"Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, BELIEVE that you have received it, and it will be yours." - Mark 11:25
"NOW faith is, the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things yet unseen" - Hebrews 11:1
(Quotes stolen from Sarah's Facebook note, which in turn are from the Bible)
Wednesday, March 10, 2010
I wonder if they do it in champagne?
I've found the wedding dress of my dreams! Now all I need to do is to grow another 7 inches taller and start dating men 25 years younger than me. Swoon.
Labels:
Fashion
Monday, March 8, 2010
Better
I came across these and intend to spend part of my Sunday on self-psychoanalysis. The shift to Melbourne and living with other people (I have only ever lived with my family and X, ever) has thrown me a little off the loop. Some self discipline needs to be exercised. Must... stop... buying stuff... (In the almost-three weeks I've been here, I've already doubled the amount of clothes/ shoes I brought over).
Become an Unforgettable Woman - 40 Fabulous Secrets
I know this one is a little too focussed on pleasing men, but overall, I think the sentiment is right, if a little Stepford-ish. I'm probably alone on this here, but I miss the era of feminity and chivalry (yes, coming from a reformed tomboy). Nowadays, it feels like girls are trying to become boys and boys are becoming girls, yet both retaining so much of the undesirable traits.
OMG, I am old-fashioned.
Characteristics of a Self-Actualizing Person
It's funny how you study Maslow's hierarchy of needs, yet it never really sinks in. And then I stumbled upon this and finally was able to put a name to that desire to achieve all these. There are definitely some things I need to work on. The nice thing about breaking up, but still being best friends with X (most self-actualized person known in existence) is, the feedback I get on How Good/ Bad a Girlfriend Was I? (Decent but plenty of room for improvement).
Become an Unforgettable Woman - 40 Fabulous Secrets
I know this one is a little too focussed on pleasing men, but overall, I think the sentiment is right, if a little Stepford-ish. I'm probably alone on this here, but I miss the era of feminity and chivalry (yes, coming from a reformed tomboy). Nowadays, it feels like girls are trying to become boys and boys are becoming girls, yet both retaining so much of the undesirable traits.
OMG, I am old-fashioned.
Characteristics of a Self-Actualizing Person
It's funny how you study Maslow's hierarchy of needs, yet it never really sinks in. And then I stumbled upon this and finally was able to put a name to that desire to achieve all these. There are definitely some things I need to work on. The nice thing about breaking up, but still being best friends with X (most self-actualized person known in existence) is, the feedback I get on How Good/ Bad a Girlfriend Was I? (Decent but plenty of room for improvement).
Labels:
Narcissism
Saturday, March 6, 2010
My random life
The weather was completely insane today. Sooky and I had been contemplating a Great Ocean Road drive but decided to head to the South Wharf DFO instead. I am now poorer by three figures, but have gained in dresses (I ♥ silk, though not the drycleaning bill) and footwear (silk flats and leather thongs). Turns out the climatologists had greatly underestimated the weather - we had hail, rain and the entire Melburnian public transport system went haywire. So much for the Moomba Festival.
The trees had their branches ripped bare. Maple leaves scattered across the tram stop roof at the Arts Precinct.
Hail! Sooky's car suffered a few light indentations, whilst the fibreglass roof at our apartment porche shattered from the force.
The floods caused the traffic to slow to a crawl. By crawl, I mean an inch of movement every 10 minutes or so.
JH's complaints of stomachache escalated and we finally took him to The Alfred at Prahan. The visit resulted in an overnight stay and an appendectomy. They're still nervously waiting on the arrival of the invoice, with an estimated damage of $5,000 - 8,000. Never fall sick in Australia unless you're covered by Medicare or private insurance.
A unit block somewhere along the Hawthorn part of Glenferrie Rd. I could not get the Easter Island character from Night in the Museum out of my head. No, you dumb-dumb!
Kites at St Kilda beach, as I strolled around, eating 2 cheeseburgers and a large fries (thank you, metabolism), post-interview.
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The fortnight in pictures
Monday, March 1, 2010
I ♥ my friends
Sometimes after all your good intentions have been turned against you and you feel alone amongst a room full of people in a strange city, it's really nice to have someone care. Even if it's over 2,000km away. Or in Jenny's case, 7,000km.
janbanks.blogspot.com says:
i am
but my friends here r female
so i do have shopping and cafe buddies
but i like doing roadtrips and long walks
which is more boy stuff
haha
Yaser says:
you make me sad
i feel like takin next flight to melbourne and do a roadtrip with u
though we did not get alot of time .. but i loved spendin time with u
God bless strangers connecting through Facebook. Because overcoming the perceived social stigma of reaching out to someone and opening yourself up can be so rewarding.
janbanks.blogspot.com says:
i am
but my friends here r female
so i do have shopping and cafe buddies
but i like doing roadtrips and long walks
which is more boy stuff
haha
Yaser says:
you make me sad
i feel like takin next flight to melbourne and do a roadtrip with u
though we did not get alot of time .. but i loved spendin time with u
God bless strangers connecting through Facebook. Because overcoming the perceived social stigma of reaching out to someone and opening yourself up can be so rewarding.
Labels:
Love